“The average person’s idea of a great man, rather than one who serves, is of one who succeeds in getting himself served.” ~ Wallace D. Wattles from The Science of Being Great

Are you more interested in BEING served than in serving?

Note Nietzsche’s wisdom here as well and then go give joy: “This is the manner of noble souls: they do not want to have anything for nothing; least of all, life. Whoever is of the mob wants to live for nothing; we others, however, to whom life gave itself, we always think about what we might best give in return...One should not wish to enjoy where one does not give joy.”